tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post1503997034330826758..comments2023-03-23T05:53:57.925-07:00Comments on KateOnTheBike: A Serious Matter - Read At Own Discretion - Explicit ContentKateOnTheBikehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10571282721561564225noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-85774726312746213332009-05-18T03:56:00.001-07:002009-05-18T03:56:00.001-07:00Anonymous? at 9:52? Reveal yourself!Anonymous? at 9:52? Reveal yourself!KateOnTheBikenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-57443983569141303862009-05-18T03:56:00.000-07:002009-05-18T03:56:00.000-07:00Is this you, Leah? (intelligent post above?)Is this you, Leah? (intelligent post above?)KateOnTheBikenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-81723544847073659402009-05-16T21:52:00.000-07:002009-05-16T21:52:00.000-07:00This post is a bit more interesting than most on t...This post is a bit more interesting than most on this topic - although probably too harsh on the then 19 year old. She appears to have consented to have sex with 2 footballers - Johns and Firman. Her body - her right and theirs. They are all over the age of consent. She took a risk in going to their rooms as it was her employers policy staff were not to be in guests room unless they were cleaning or delivering meals, messages etc. So she stepped over an employment line which could have cost her her job. <br />What does concern me though is how agreeing to sex with Johns and Firman evolved into 9 other men in the room, trousers down, masturbating, touching her etc. The fact that someone who entered that motel room deliberately left the front foor unlocked and sliding doors open while they were having their 3 person group sex. Who invited the others in to that room where the girl was already naked and had had sex with 2 men? How was it that 9 other men found their way into that room? It appears highly cheorgraphed to me with the 2 more good looking and social able footballers doing the "recruiting", bringing her back and then once they had their encounter, what - Johns says he magically left the room and did not know what happened and it was over when he came back? Footballers are trained to operate as one - a pack if you like - and I can well envision the 19 year old being resigned to much of it or at least not loudly objecting to the other because not only would her job be on the line [football clubs staying in motels generate a lot of income] but objecting would have exposed her other decision ie., to have sex with 2 of them. It is a form of sexual blackmail - and behind it is an assumption that if she would do it with 2 fellows, then another 9 are also fine. We are all taught consent is the operative issue but that is in the context of rape. What we have here is sexual manipulation calculated to silence or subdue someone into consent. Its a coerced consent nevertheless. I note that in this girls so called bragging about the incident, what the other co worker says she boasted about was the consensual sex with the first two players - not about the other 9 later on. That being said, this young woman made some very silly choices but I also believe the footballers "routine" that inveigled her into that situation where consent for the other 9 was coerced was a very well rehearsed one. Just think about laying there naked after a fab 3 way sex, feeling great and the door or sliding windows opens - again and again - with more and more men pouring into the room where you are lying on a bed, undressed and already labelled 'slut' or 'up for it' in their minds. This was a highly orchestrated thing and those involved would know full well the pressure on her to continue even if she was not into it. As for the 7 years later thing - the media have been chasing after women affected by footballers very hard for ages. They also play a high pressure game to get interviewees they want. I think they snagged her and give her obvious regret and the fall out to her self esteem after the incident, probably when she realised how thoroughly she had been conned and manipulated, she feels pretty rotten about herself. She did say in the interview she felt she was also to blame and her feelings about this are also partially correct. <br />I would not slam her for the year break. She complained to the NZ police after 4 days at the time, so its not like this view is one she arrived at a few weeks ago.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-71368609184203542032009-05-15T18:57:00.000-07:002009-05-15T18:57:00.000-07:00Sorry read it properly Rapper was not rapist. Dad ...Sorry read it properly Rapper was not rapist. Dad pulled me up on that cos he read it. I started to glaze over about that point. Good work tho.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-16788402464545145102009-05-15T17:29:00.000-07:002009-05-15T17:29:00.000-07:00Mum again. Thank you Mr Google. That was not my ow...Mum again. Thank you Mr Google. That was not my own work. You taught me well Babe.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-20824572796815795112009-05-15T17:27:00.000-07:002009-05-15T17:27:00.000-07:00The quote is "He that is without sin among you let...The quote is "He that is without sin among you let him cast a stone at her."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-82638559570375413912009-05-15T16:55:00.000-07:002009-05-15T16:55:00.000-07:00mum was anonymous.mum was anonymous.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7066041927905654978.post-25028850594244688462009-05-15T16:53:00.000-07:002009-05-15T16:53:00.000-07:00New Zealand authorities did the investigation. Not...New Zealand authorities did the investigation. Not Australian,. Rapers not rappers. Did you read the quote from Bible.. John properly. My eyes glazed over half way but it was great up to the point that Im over the whole thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com